It’s a bit like a high-school popularity Female Strippers, if you are seen hanging out with cool kids rather than the losers then the hot girls will think you are a cool kid and want to get to know you. In strip clubs the bartenders and security are the cool kids and the sleazy desperate punters are the losers.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 2: Don’t objectify her.
Most guys think that by watching a stripper exposing themselves on stage, the stripper is degrading herself and this might be true; however, what you should also be aware of is that this is a two-way street and by objectifying the girl on stage you are also objectifying yourself as a desperate horny guy who has to pay to see a girl naked.
Look strippers in the eyes instead of checking out their bodies, it will make them feel like you see them as real people rather than naked barbies and this will set you apart from all the other chumps there.
When you catch their gaze make sure you hold it, this will show them that you are an alpha male and encourage them to approach you.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 3: Try not to shop around too much..
When you are trying to seduce a stripper you need to first build a connection with her and make her feel like she is special.
It is not like a brothel where you can pick and choose and it doesn’t matter because you are paying for it and it is a simple transaction, strippers are not whores and your aim is to sleep with them for free so if you want to go home with them you need to treat them like people and not items on sale.
When you see the stripper that you like, try to stick to your target. You might meet one and find that you don’t like her personality and want to move on and that is fine, as long as you don’t do it too often. Realistically you can afford between 2-3 switches before it looks like you are just shopping for sleaze.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 4: Make her sell herself.
The more you can get a stripper to sell herself to you the more invested she becomes in you as a person.
When you initiate a conversation with her, make her feel like she is the salesperson not you. If she offers you a lap-dance get her to tell you what makes her lap dances so good.
Don’t be an easy sell because the more you make her work for it, the more she will respect you as a person. It will also make your interaction feel like more of a seduction rather than a transaction.
Stripper Pick Up Tip 5: Get her real name.
When girls first start working at strip clubs they are usually told to make up a stripper name, like Crystal or Dakota or Mercedes; this is done for several reasons such as.
-Its quite common for strippers to get stalkers and giving them a fake name makes it harder for them to track them down outside of work hours.
-It allows them adopt alternative persona’s and psychologically distance themselves from their clientele.